LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy

LGBTQ+ Therapist in Los Angeles

Queer, trans & nonbinary affirming therapy in English and Spanish

Navigating your identity as an LGBTQ+ person can become more complicated when the people closest to you do not fully understand or accept parts of who you are. You may love your family and still feel like you cannot completely be yourself around them. Sometimes it can feel difficult to talk about your relationships, how you identify, or what you are going through because you are unsure how they will respond—or because past conversations have left you feeling misunderstood, judged, or unsupported. You may also find yourself trying to protect your family's feelings while putting your own needs aside.

Therapy can be a space to explore these experiences without having to defend or explain who you are. I offer Spanish-speaking and bilingual therapy for clients who feel more comfortable talking about these experiences in Spanish, as well as online therapy throughout California for LGBTQ+ clients who may not have access to affirming support nearby.

L. Patty Flores, LGBTQ+ affirming therapist in Los Angeles
🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy

Therapy That Honors Your Full Story

LGBTQ+ people come to therapy for many of the same reasons anyone else does, such as anxiety, relationships, family conflict, trauma, or simply trying to understand themselves better. But identity can also shape how we experience those challenges and whether we feel understood when we ask for help.

My perspective is shaped by my own lived experience as a queer person, an immigrant, and a former foster youth. I know what it can feel like to walk into a room and wonder which parts of yourself are safe to bring. In therapy with me, you will not have to educate me about your identity, defend your relationships, or translate your experiences into something easier for someone else to accept.

Navigating family expectations, culture, rejection, religion, immigration, school, work, or systems that were not built with you in mind can deeply affect your mental health. I provide LGBTQ+ affirming therapy for teens, young adults, and adults who want a space to better understand themselves, their emotions, their relationships, and the experiences that shaped them.

Common Reasons LGBTQ+ Clients Seek Therapy

Identity exploration
Coming out
Family conflict & rejection
Anxiety and depression
Trauma and grief
Self-esteem & internalized shame
Relationship challenges
Life transitions
Gender identity & expression
Belonging and isolation
Foster care or adoption experiences
Immigration, culture & religion

Affirming Therapy for Transgender & Nonbinary Clients

Trans, nonbinary, and gender-expansive people often carry a particular kind of stress: being misgendered, having to explain yourself to family, school, or medical providers, and constantly assessing whether a space is safe. Therapy can be one place where you do not have to do that work.

Whether you are questioning, early in exploring your gender, or years into your transition, I offer a steady, nonjudgmental space to talk about gender identity, dysphoria, family and partner relationships, coming out at school or work, and the everyday impact of navigating a world that is not always affirming.

Support for LGBTQ+ Teens & Young Adults

Many LGBTQ+ teens figure out who they are long before they feel safe telling anyone. They may be dealing with bullying, pressure to hide parts of themselves, conflict at home, or worry about how their family or community will react. Some shut down, some act out, and many feel alone.

Therapy for LGBTQ+ teens gives young people a confidential space to explore their identity at their own pace, build confidence, and learn how to communicate with the important people in their lives. When it is helpful, I also support parents and caregivers who want to understand and affirm their child.

LGBTQ+ Foster Youth & Adoptees

LGBTQ+ young people are overrepresented in foster care, and many have experienced placement disruptions, rejection, or caregivers who did not understand them. Adoptees who are LGBTQ+ may also carry layered questions about identity, belonging, and family that are hard to explain to people who have not lived it.

Having grown up in the system myself, I bring both clinical training and lived experience to this work. Learn more about my therapy for adoptees and foster youth in Los Angeles.

Terapia LGBTQ+ en Español

Para muchas personas LGBTQ+ latinas, hablar sobre la familia, la cultura, la religión y la identidad es más fácil en español. Ofrezco terapia afirmativa LGBTQ+ completamente en español o en una combinación de español e inglés, en un espacio donde no tienes que traducir tu historia ni explicar tu cultura.

Podemos hablar sobre salir del clóset, las expectativas familiares, el rechazo, la fe, la inmigración y cómo encontrar tu lugar entre culturas. Conoce más sobre mi terapia en español en Los Ángeles.

LGBTQ+ Therapy in Los Angeles & Online Across California

I offer in-person and online sessions for LGBTQ+ clients across Los Angeles County, including West Hollywood, Silver Lake, Echo Park, Long Beach, the San Fernando Valley, and East LA.

I also offer online LGBTQ+ affirming therapy throughout California, including San Diego, Orange County, the Inland Empire, the Bay Area, Sacramento, and the Central Valley. Virtual therapy can be especially helpful if you live in an area where affirming care is limited, or if you want privacy from people in your community.

Finding a therapist who feels like the right fit is not always easy, and being LGBTQ+ can make that search even harder. You may want a therapist who understands that not every problem you bring to therapy is about your sexual orientation or gender identity, while also recognizing that these parts of who you are affect your relationships, family experiences, sense of belonging, and how you move through the world.

My Approach

My work is relational, trauma-informed, and intersectional. I draw from liberation psychology, psychodynamic and relational therapy, narrative therapy, somatic approaches, and practical cognitive-behavioral tools. For LGBTQ+ clients, that often means looking at how family messages, culture, religion, and past experiences of rejection have shaped the way you see yourself, and making room to rewrite those stories on your own terms.

"My colleague & good friend, Patty, is an inspirational & empowering clinician, as not only a professional, but also as an expert with lived experience of the child welfare system. She provides affirming, compassionate care in both English & Spanish."

Dr. Sky Lea Ross, LMFT, PsyD

"Patty brings a rare combination of clinical insight and lived experience that deeply enriches her work. Her commitment to immigrant families and trauma-informed practice is exceptional."

Dr. Cheryl Aguilar, LICSW, Ph.D.

"Patty's lived experience, education, and research background inform her deep commitment to the practice of healing. The ways she holds space invites each client into the room, just as they are. What she provides is a rare gift."

Sean Sparks, LMFT

L. Patty Flores, MSW, ASW126834

Doctoral Student & Chancellor's Fellow, Washington University in St. Louis (WashU)

Associate Clinical Social Worker No. ASW126834

📍 Based in Los Angeles, CA · In-person and online sessions available.

I am employed by CR Dixon Counseling Inc for therapy services. For more info, visit her website: www.cdixoncounseling.com

Clinical Supervision by Christina Dixon, LCSW #87870

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LGBTQ+ Therapy FAQs

LGBTQ+ affirming therapy means your sexual orientation and gender identity are respected as valid parts of who you are, not treated as problems to fix. You will not have to educate me, defend your identity, or justify your relationships in order to get support.

Yes. I work with transgender, nonbinary, gender-expansive, and questioning clients, including teens and young adults. Therapy can support you with gender exploration, family relationships, dysphoria, stress, and the everyday impact of navigating spaces that are not always affirming.

No. Many LGBTQ+ clients come to therapy for anxiety, depression, relationships, trauma, school, or work. Your identity is part of your story, but you decide what we focus on.

Yes. I offer LGBTQ+ affirming therapy fully in Spanish or in a mix of Spanish and English. Many Latinx LGBTQ+ clients find it easier to talk about family, culture, and religion in Spanish.

Yes. I work with LGBTQ+ teens who are exploring their identity, coming out, dealing with bullying or family conflict, or feeling isolated. Teen therapy is confidential, with a few safety-related exceptions that I review with every family.

I offer in-person and online sessions.

I am not currently in-network with insurance. I hope to offer insurance options in the future to increase access for LGBTQ+ clients from all backgrounds.

My standard fee is $180 per session. I offer a limited number of sliding-scale spots for those who qualify. Please reach out to discuss availability and options.

I use IVY PAY, a secure mobile app designed specifically for therapy services.

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